Thursday, September 14, 2006

Back to Basics...


There has been an evolution here at Secrets of a Sexblogger. I mean, am I really even a sex blogger anymore? What the hell road am I traveling? I know you guys are confused, and so am I to be honest.

I started this blog with my husband Chris, yep..some of you remember the days when he actually contributed with comment and writings. Then, he decided to contribute by letting me be free and express myself to bloggerville. I shared my inner-most secrets, my horniest thoughts and adventures. I posted pictures of every inch of my body, and I flirted with commenters. Then it happened..someone out there became a little too scary, and I had to pull my blog down. After a few days of thinking, I started again...from scratch. And, most of you have seen a different side of me from when I first started. You saw my plight to get my dream job, my rants about reality television, and my interviews from the couch.

Now, to be honest...I have no idea where to go. Sometimes I think about quitting. I do not get the comments and traffic I once did. And, I get email telling me how disappointed people are in my evolution. I even got email the other day that scolded me for sharing my story about 9/11 and how I hated Texas because of the sad memories. I saw a very dear blogger buddy pass away, and now I am about to approach my one year anniversary of being here in bloggerville. What people dont always seem to understand is this is MY place. I can not rant and rave all day. I cant tell people about my sex-life, and I can never, ever reveal my weaknesses. Therapists are not allowed to be more mental than their clients....but guess what, we are!

So, in short...perhaps I will get back to basics. I will just do whatever I feel like doing and not really give a fuck about who I am pleasing or not pleasing. Blogging is supposed to be about ME, and what I want the world to know. So, if I disappointed you..I am sorry. For those of you that keep reading and want more...thank you. And, please feel free to tell me what you want more of! I mean, I do like to entertain to a point, and I want this to be a cool place to come and hang out.

With this all said, I think I will go masturbate now, create a hot fantasy in my head and blog about it tomorrow... until then...enjoy my tits!~

xoxo~!
andi

14 comments:

Semi-Celibate Man said...

Blog for you, and no one else. Pure blogging. Feedback and comments are nice, but this place is for you to express you.

You owe no one anything.

Express away. You'll stay in my links.

Edtime Stories said...

andi,
I think you know how I feel about what you write. I think you know how I feel about the blog world. I think you know how I feel about you. Your right, this is your space and fuck the assholes who want to make you do something for them. I think basically you do what you want. we all evolve and change what we express. But you know you are loved and people will be there for you. Besides your couch sessions are a hoot and I hope someday you will let me in the office.

RobynB said...

Andi~ Those that love you, love you for you.

Period.

Write what you want, say what you need to say... express yourself however you want... If you offend someone, they just need to stay away. Its that simple.

I'd rather have a small handful of friends surrounding me than a ton of fair weather people.

Be true to you

I'll always come back for more.

Love you much
~Robyn

steph said...

Hey Andi! I have been reading you since just before you pulled the original blog down. I don't comment very often because I usually have to go find someone to jump on after reading your posts but... I have enjoyed all aspects of your creation. That story about the 40 year old virgin made me pee a little it was so funny. You are an amazing author. I love your stories, I love your emotion and you are empowering. Keep on going!
ps... shout out to the CANADIAN winner of Supernova

Green Eyes said...

Girl, why are people sending you emails like that? What the hell??? Who are they to say they're disappointed?

You do have friends here, and I for one, care.

Hugs!

Kyma said...

Events can really shape what we do... that's all I got to say because I won't dwell on the negatives.

sxuly yrs said...

Wow, seeing all these new commenters is really wonderful. I had no idea that there were people out there who like what I write. Sometimes bloggerville seems empty, but I am glad to see that it really is not.

Thanks guys! I really appreciate the love and support I feel from you all, and I am glad to see my ol' friends around here too! And to my new friends..thanks!

xoxo!
andi

steph said...

I think you have a ton of readers who don't comment because you are really tight with your blogger community. Which is really cool but intimidating to newbies!

for a different kind of girl said...

I've been one of those longtime silent readers, enjoying your efforts and waiting for the Rockstar reviews (my only happiness with that? that Dilana didn't win...). Anyway, I'm just now delving into this particular world, not sure what direction my efforts are going in, but wanted to let you know I've enjoyed!

sxuly yrs said...

Ah, again I am flattered! I know it seems like I have tight blogger friends, but I promise all are included!!

xoxo!
andi

bella said...

Blogging is supposed to be about ME, and what I want the world to know.

Amen, sister.

bella

Kristi said...

way to be YOU Andi!

KJ said...

Oh Andi, I'm so sorry I missed this last week.......

Cheers to you and I'm so proud of you for being you.....

A blog isn't supposed to be for anyone other than the person writing it....I think you're amazing and look forward to coming here to find out what's going on in your life......do it for you and let those that care in on the ride

Dirty Boy said...

The question is, do you do this for the traffic and the comments, or is there, as it sounds in your post, some higher purpose?

Do what you feel is best for you and know that people who care about the person behind the blogger will support you. If people are just looking merely for sexually explicit material, there are plenty of other places for them to find it.

The Secrets of a Sexblogger aren't all about sex, or blogging, because there's a person in there. Be the person, online and off, that you want to be.